I'm not saying use the coupon on a date necessarily, you know.
However, as a soon-to-be married woman, I'm used to it. Especially, since I'm the one finding all the coupons.
Plus, everything depends on your financial situation. If using a coupon might get you to a higher end place, I'm sure you could approach the server discreetly about the coupon and the date need not know.
If I recall correctly, our last anniversary Mr. Food Nut wanted to take me to North Pond. Which, I'm sure, is fantastic.
However, I had him check the web for the menu/prices. He soon warmed up to my idea of Fondue Stube and the coupon for our anniversary dinner.
It really was lovely and not about the $$$... if it's true love.
Reading is a right. Censorship is not.