Some very interesting responses. I wonder how many are those that Tyrus would have predicted?
When I was three, my grandfather bought me child size tools - spade, hoe, etc. They were copper-colored, I remember. He did most of the work, I'm sure, though I remember being very serious about helping. I don't remember the specifics, but the tenor of it. The love of being with him, the wonder at how things worked, the joy of seeing those little seeds turn into something wondrous. I had my own garden for my whole childhood; he had the very large kitchen garden that he worked in every day, without fail. I had a small mostly flower garden. When I was older and had proven basic skills, I was allowed to help in the main garden. His philosophy was what we'd call organic today. Long before it was a household word or Whole Foods was marketing it, he was using manure from the farm and paying neighbor children to bring rat and gardener snakes. To me, that is a part of what gardening is, being a good steward of the earth.
I don't know that I can articulate what gardening is to me; certainly I cannot in a few words. Whether I'm in containers or the ground, indoors or out, vegetables, trees, or flowers, annuals or perennials, it's all good.
It's still about wonder. As Cynthia said, put that seed or onion set or potato eye in the ground and in a few days, weeks, and months? Holy cow! It's also about being outside in nature. The earth, the rain, the birds, the worms, the sun, the bees, the spiders and snakes and predator wasps all doing what they do, working in concert to create order and balance. It's about sharing abundance with others and about community. I don't sing like Michelle, but being in the garden does something good to my brain - it balances me, making me happy and content. It's hard work at times, but always good work.
But, the emotional aside, it's also about having things close to home. Again, Cynthia and I are on a similar wavelength - I rarely would spring for fresh herbs at the grocery because of the price and waste factor. But, having fresh herbs to grab in any amount at any time? That's worth a lot. Variety is also extremely important. Each year I try at least a few new things I've not tried - whether a completely new plant (I'd never grown lettuce or Asian greens until this year) or a new variety (this year it's an okra I haven't tried before and two tomato types that are new to me). Each winter, with the snow on the ground, it's exciting to start reading catalog descriptions and decide what stuff I'll try this coming year. I am always searching for exquisite taste, particularly in tomatoes, but in other things, too. There are some things that just can't be matched in any grocery store. I might get some of them at a market, but I rarely find myself able to get to one based on how my schedule works. And, even if I did, it isn't the same as having grown it and picked it yourself. There is something extremely self satisfying about making dinner and using things you grew.
Happy gardening everyone, for whatever reason you do it.