We are still in, though the Bride has been quietly weaseling (she says, "what if I am too busy with work?" - imagine the misguided priorities of the woman!). Anyway, we are at least one, probably two - unfortunately she will not know for sure until Monday of that week.
As to the menu, the joy of an LTH meal is that if I am not in charge, I can trust others to make good choices and just enjoy. So I support whatever decision you make. You could also just say - "we are happy to pay $50, make whatever you think would most amuse us."
And I would let them know this is an LTH dinner. Given our history with Moto, no need to hide (assuming Homaro has not already been reading this thread). If I were to sum up the LTH ethical stand on this, it is safe to say that we are not paid reviewers, thus not obliged to remain anonymous. On the other hand, we insist on paying for our meals. There is a certain urban refuge in anonymity, though, for some of us.
Anyway, if we choose to post a review on the meal, and I am sure we will, it will be clear that this was an LTH event and not what the normal diner might encounter with their party of 4.
Hopefully I have this right, but if not I trust a friendly mod will revise as needed.
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Feeling (south) loopy