I most certainly believe in
consistency over time. It is most ideal to be able to visit a place multiple times before passing ultimate judgement in your mind. Nevertheless, as Cathy2 said, we are not paid to eat nor are we all independently wealthy. Therefore, we can paint a larger picture by sharing our experiences in the interest of learning, growing, and enjoying.
foo d,
You have touched on the heart of the purpose of LTHForum.com, in my opinion. We are not all individually capable of passing the most professional, complete judgement of one restaurant (bakery/deli/what-have-you).What we can do is share and collect our information to form a more complete view across time and across tastes.
When posting negatively, as Will said, I believe most people here are reasonably judicious. Personally, when I post negatively, as I did recently with
Bacchanalia, I try to make it clear how many visits this judgement is based on, and whether or not I think it's possible that it was "just a bad night" or if the problems are simply endemic to the restaurant. I think most people here tend to do the same. When a blanket statement is made, the poster is often asked to elaborate.
The engineer in me tends to classify and rate things quite often. I try my best to keep these classificiations out of my posts as one man's rating and classificication system is usually quite useless to others. But, this may be the right thread to share a bit of it. When I don't like a restaurant, I will generally put it in one of the following different categories, from worst to best:
Not for me or anyone else: I hated it, I find no reason to ever return, and I will not recommend it to anyone on the planet.
Not for me: I hated it, I find no reason to ever return, but there may be others who would enjoy certain aspects of it. I am more delicate when reviewing these.
Not for me, but......: I didn't care for it, but in the right situation, with the right crowd, it can be tolerated. On this basis, I may return.
Deserves another shot: I didn't care for it, but it showed promise, I may have ordered wrong, or I think they (or I) had an off night.
There is also the temporal nature of dining. Cathy mentioned Vital Info's excellent point about each restaurant experience as a snapshot in the day of a restaurant's life. What's good or bad rarely stays that way forever. This returns us again to the purpose and value of discussions on LTHForum.com.
Thank you again, moderators.
Best,
Michael / EC